Me + Baby = Happy
This country now belongs to the younger generations. We are the past, for better or worse.
And that is the way that it should be. This is a little scary for me, to have a president like this guy. But I am now a 56 year old man brought up in a different era. I remember when my high school was integrated in 1966. That was scary too. What now? Who knows? But for better or worse, we are along for the ride...
Bill
By Frank Schaeffer (The Huffington Post)
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Great presidents are made great by horrible circumstances combined with character, temperament and intelligence. Like firemen, cops, doctors or soldiers, presidents need a crisis to shine.
Obama is one of the most intelligent presidential aspirants to ever step forward in American history. The likes of his intellectual capabilities have not been surpassed in public life since the Founding Fathers put pen to paper. His personal character is also solid gold. Take heart, America : we have the leader for our times.
I say this as a white, former life-long Republican. I say this as the proud father of a Marine. I say this as just another American watching his pension evaporate along with the stock market! I speak as someone who knows it's time to forget party loyalty, ideology and pride and put the country first. I say this as someone happy to be called a fool for going out on a limb and declaring that, 1) Obama will win, and 2) he is going to be amongst the greatest of American presidents.
Obama is our last best chance. He's worth laying it all on the line for.
This is a man who in the age of greed took the high road of community service. This is the good father and husband. This is the humble servant. This is the patient teacher. This is the scholar statesman. This is the man of deep Christian faith.
Good stories about Obama abound; from his personal relationship with his Secret Service agents (he invites them into his home to watch sports, and shoots hoops with them) to the story about how, more than twenty years ago, while standing in the check-in line at an airport, Obama paid a $100 baggage surcharge for a stranger who was broke and stuck. (Obama was virtually penniless himself in those days.) Years later, after he became a senator, that stranger recognized Obama's picture and wrote to him to thank him. She received a kindly note back from the senator. (The story only surfaced because the person, who lives in Norway , told a local newspaper after Obama ran for the presidency. The paper published a photograph of this lady proudly displaying Senator Obama's letter.)
Where many leaders are two-faced; publicly kindly but privately feared and/or hated by people closest to them, Obama is consistent in the way he treats people, consistently kind and personally humble. He lives by the code that those who lead must serve. He believes that. He lives it. He lived it long before he was in the public eye.
Obama puts service ahead of ideology. He also knows that to win politically you need to be tough. He can be. He has been. This is a man who does what works, rather than scoring ideological points. In other words he is the quintessential non-ideological pragmatic American. He will (thank God!) disappoint ideologues and purists of the left and the right.
Obama has a reservoir of personal physical courage that is unmatched in presidential history. Why unmatched? Because as the first black contender for the presidency who will win, Obama, and all the rest of us, know that he is in great physical danger from the seemingly unlimited reserve of unhinged racial hatred, and just plain unhinged ignorant hatred, that swirls in the bowels of our wounded and sinful country. By stepping forward to lead, Obama has literally put his life on the line for all of us in a way no white candidate ever has had to do. (And we all know how dangerous the presidency has been even for white presidents.)
Nice stories or even unparalleled courage isn't the only point. The greater point about Obama is that the midst of our worldwide financial meltdown, an expanding (and losing) war in Afghanistan, trying to extricate our country from a wrong and stupidly mistaken ruinously expensive war in Iraq, our mounting and crushing national debt, awaiting the next (and inevitable) al Qaeda attack on our homeland, watching our schools decline to Third World levels of incompetence, facing a general loss of confidence in the government that has been exacerbated by the Republicans doing all they can to undermine our government's capabilities and programs... President Obama will take on the leadership of our country at a make or break time of historic proportions. He faces not one but dozens of crisis, each big enough to define any presidency in better times.
As luck, fate or divine grace would have it (depending on one's personal theology) Obama is blessedly, dare I say uniquely, well-suited to our dire circumstances. Obama is a person with hands-on community service experience, deep connections to top economic advisers from the renowned University of Chicago where he taught law and a middle-class background that gives him an abiding knowledgeable empathy with the rest of us. As the son of a single mother, who has worked his way up with merit and brains, recipient of top-notch academic scholarships, the peer-selected editor of the Harvard Law Review and, in three giant political steps to state office, national office and now the presidency, Obama clearly has the wit and drive to lead.
Obama is the sober voice of reason at a time of unreason. He is the fellow keeping his head while all around him are panicking. He is the healing presence at a time of national division and strife. He is also new enough to the political process so that he doesn't suffer from the terminally jaded cynicism, the seen-it-all-before syndrome afflicting most politicians in Washington . In that regard we Americans lucked out. It's as if having despaired of our political process we picked a name from the phone book to lead us and that person turned out to be a very man we needed.
Obama brings a healing and uplifting spiritual quality to our politics at the very time when our worst enemy is fear. For eight years we've been ruled by a stunted, fear-filled, mediocrity of a little liar who has expanded his power on the basis of creating fear in others. Fearless Obama is the cure. He speaks a litany of hope rather than a litany of terror.
As we have watched Obama respond in a quiet reasoned manner to crisis after crisis, in both the way he has responded after being attacked and lied about in the 2008 campaign season, to his reasoned response to our multiplying national crises, what we see is the spirit of a trusted family doctor with a great bedside manner. Obama is perfectly suited to hold our hand and lead us through some very tough times. The word panic is not in the Obama dictionary.
America is fighting its 'Armageddon' in one fearful heart at a time. A brilliant leader with the mild manner of an old-time matter-of-fact country doctor soothing a frightened child is just what we need. The fact that our 'doctor' is a black man leading a hitherto white-ruled nation out of the mess of its own making is all the sweeter and raises the Obama story to that of moral allegory.
Obama brings a moral clarity to his leadership reserved for those who have had to work for everything they've gotten and had to do twice as well as the person standing next to them because of the color of their skin. His experience of succeeding in spite of his color, social background and prejudice could have been embittering or one that fostered a spiritual rebirth of forgiveness and enlightenment. Obama radiates the calm inner peace of the spirit of forgiveness.
Speaking as a believing Christian I see the hand of a merciful God in Obama's candidacy. The biblical metaphors abound. The stone the builder rejected has become the cornerstone... the last shall be first... he that would gain his life must first lose it... the meek shall inherit the earth...
For my secular friends I'll allow that we may have just been extraordinarily lucky! Either way America wins.
Only a brilliant man, with the spirit of a preacher and the humble heart of a kindly family doctor can lead us now. We are afraid, out of ideas, and worst of all out of hope. Obama is the cure. And we Americans have it in us to rise to the occasion. We will. We're about to enter one of the most frightening periods of American history. Our country has rarely faced more uncertainty. This is the time for greatness. We have a great leader. We must be a great people backing him, fighting for him, sacrificing for a cause greater than ourselves.
A hundred years from now Obama's portrait will be placed next to that of George Washington, Abraham Lincoln and Franklin Roosevelt. Long before that we'll be telling our children and grandchildren that we stepped out in faith and voted for a young black man who stood up and led our country back from the brink of an abyss. We'll tell them about the power of love, faith and hope. We'll tell them about the power of creativity combined with humility and intellectual brilliance. We'll tell them that President Obama gave us the gift of regaining our faith in our country. We'll tell them that we all stood up and pitched in and won the day. We'll tell them that President Obama restored our standing in the world. We'll tell them that by the time he left office our schools were on the mend, our economy booming, that we'd become a nation filled with green energy alternatives and were leading the world awa y from dependence on carbon-based destruction. We'll tell them that because of President Obama's example and leadership the integrity of the family was restored, divorce rates went down, more fathers took responsibility for their children, and abortion rates fell dramatically as women, families and children were cared for through compassionate social programs that worked. We'll tell them about how the gap closed between the middle class and the super rich, how we won health care for all, how crime rates fell, how bad wars were brought to an honorable conclusion. We'll tell them that when we were attacked again by al Qaeda, how reason prevailed and the response was smart, tough, measured and effective, and our civil rights were protected even in times of crisis...
We'll tell them that we were part of the inexplicably blessed miracle that happened to our country those many years ago in 2008 when a young black man was sent by God, fate or luck to save our country. We'll tell them that it's good to live in America where anything is possible. Yes we will.
I had dinner with my mom last night. She's still pissed that I eloped to Vegas. WTF? We talk about that for a while (she claims she's trying to "understand" why I would run off and get married instead of having a real wedding). Then we get on the subject of my brother (who has gotten his girlfriend preggers). My brother was kind of a screw up in high school, but then he went into the Army, got his shit straight, fought for our country in a war he thought was pointless, and came home a real live MAN! The pregnancy wasn't planned, but he's still super excited. I always knew he'd make a great dad :) He and his girl are closing on a house this Tuesday! I've been telling everyone about my nephew and how I can't wait to meet him!! Then my mom tells me that she's only told about 4 or 5 people (all family, no friends) that's I've gotten married and she hasn't told ANYONE about her soon to be first-born grandchild!!! OMG!!!!!!!!!!!! WTF?!?!?!?!?! What soon to be grandmother isn't shouting from the rafters to anyone that will listen about her grandchild?! I then tell her "thanks for being ashamed of us Mom" and she says "Your welcome". I think I'm handeling all this pretty well, until I get home, put my car in park, and promptly burst into tears. I'm not a crier. I cry maybe once or twice a year. Until my ex-fiance told me "I'm no longer interested in you and I don't want to marry you" my closest friend from college (whom I had known over 10 years at that point) had never seen me cry. So coming home to my husband in tears is a HUGE FUCKING DEAL! I'm a good person, I pay taxes, I have a college degree (something Mom insisted on) I have a good job, I organize and participate in charity events for my company, I have a wonderful husband who loves me dearly and treats me like gold, hell, I even have good credit!! How could a mother possibly be ashamed of a daughter like that? Mom's approval was never something that was really important to me, but knowing that she loved me, was happy for me and supported me was important. That unconditional support is what I feel like I've lost. How can anyone act like this?
1. Had Tiger Woods literally bump into me at the Augusta National Golf Course. Very polite and excused himself immediately.
2. Been to Belarus, the last dictatorship in Europe.
3. Fell asleep at an Atlanta Braves baseball game.
To all of the scientists who have done research to advance drug development, I would like to say THANK YOU! If it weren't for psychiatric medications, I would either be a worthless drooling mess with nothing to contribute to society or dead. I'm feeling exceptionally cheerful today and I know it's because I got my presciption renewed. One the one hand, it's kinda sad that I need to drugs to feel normal, on the other hand, it's a blessing to live in an age where such things are available.
Judging by the posts I'm seeing, there is a lot of change going on in a lot of lives. Must be something in the air. I am wanting to make changes in my life as well. Is there something about your early 30's that demands a radical shift in the way you live your life? Work has never been a major part of my life, I never really even wanted a career, but I'm finding now that work is becoming an even lower priority than before. I want to enjoy life and my husband and my pets and family and all that good stuff. Obviously, I should have been born independently wealthy ;)
This morning I went by my local Chick-Fil-A (which I happened to work at Chick-Fil-A in high school and I STILL eat the food there, so that should tell you something about the quality of their practices) and ordered the #4 combo, which included chicken, egg and cheese on a multigrain bagel, hashbrowns, and a small drink all for $4.69. I placed my order, and was told the final price was $5.27. Now I know taxes are high, but they're not THAT high, so what's up? Chick-Fil-A has raised their prices since I've been eating breakfast there in the past few years, so I thought maybe they raised the price and hadn't updated their sign yet. Not so much. Turns out that even though the combo comes with a small drink, they go ahead and give (and charge!) everyone for a medium drink. When I asked why, I was told that EVERYONE wants a medium drink, so they just go ahead and ring it up that way, and if you want the small drink, then you have to request it. WTF?!?!?!?!?!?! The combo comes with a SMALL drink and I have to specially request it?!?! People irritate me.
OMG! I just found out this morning that my brother's girlfriend is pregenant!!!! The reason for the shock is this: NO ONE IN MY REBUPLICAN, CHURCH-GOING, CONSERVATIVE FAMILY WOULD DO THIS!!! Allow me to give a little background on my family. My mother's father was a Presbyterian minister and English teacher who taught at a seminary in Virginia in his "retirement". My mother's mother was an elementary school teacher from Americas, Georgia who still wears her wedding ring to this day, even though my grandfather has been deceased for close to a decade because she believes in forever. My father lives in Carrboro and when he went to register to vote, he registered Republican, even after the lady helping him asked "Are you sure?".
When I asked my brother if he had told Mom, he said yeah and I asked what she thought and he said "I think she was still in shock when we got off the phone an hour later." My brother just moved in with this girl in February, after he got out of the Army and after meeting her on the internet. Don't get me wrong, my brother is WONDERFUL with kids and will make a GREAT dad. But I haven't met this girl, she's been married before, already has a daughter, and I'm just afraid my brother is falling into the same trap our own dad did when he married his second wife, after knowing her only 4 months (what a disaster that turned out to be!) This girl has no interest in getting married, even though my brother would like to. Sweet as he is, my brother has the WORST taste in women on the planet and I'm just afraid that this girl is going to use and abuse him and dump his ass then sue him for child support. That being said, let me give you a little background on my brother's choice in women. When he was in high school, my brother had a credit card from my mom to use for gas. He ended up racking up $10,000.00 worth of crap on that card for this girl and her family. Her family was not a well off as ours (we weren't rich, but Mom got the bills paid) and my brother couldn't stand to see them suffer when he thought he could help. I realize my brother is mostly to blame for the situation and the debt, but if that girl hadn't manipulated him, he never would have gotten into that mess in the first place, so she is partly to blame in my book. But this is the kind of girls he dates. The evil kind of bitches that use men for everything they have, then dump them when they're finished. Hence my apprehension.
Going forward, I'm not sure if I should be happy for him, or apprehensive, or what. But still, OMG!!!!
Raped by car place for fixing my car - check
Bitched out by former consultant, even though I was just the messenger - check
Dumped with more tiny questions that I have to research and answer than should be allowed by law - check
Cold and dreary day that deserves nothing more than snuggles on the couch with my sweetie - check
People not telling me shit when I asked them 10,000 times to keep me updated - check
People getting mad at me because they took it upon themselves to do something unpleasant that I didn't ask of them - check
Most of this was before lunch :(
Does this mean I need a new job? Cause 4 out of the 6 things on my shitty Monday list are work related, and it just doesn't seem to be getting any better.
